"I will scream them loud tonight Can you hear my voice this time This is my fight song Take back my life song Prove I'm alright song ..." I'm sure you've heard this song on the radio (by Rachel Platten). If not ... look it up. We've lived in NJ now for 2 years and I know from past experiences with moving to a new state, that it really does take time to "embrace" the change. Two years is usually the number. I know because my family has bounced from NJ to MO to CA to NJ to AR to NJ. I'd like to say that now that two years has gone by, I feel better ... like we are home. Not exactly true. It's a battle every day. I'm reminded all of the time how expensive it is to live here ... how complicated children's schedules can be ... how angry people are around me ... how family and faith are valued less. I feel like I've been fighting for two years. The lyrics of this song mimic what I see in my h...