A notable conversation ... {c} : " I need a snack" ME : "{c}, you can have a piece of fruit" {c} : "I only like raspberries and marshmallows" ME : "we don't have raspberries ... how about a peach?" {c} : "I'd rather a marshmallow" ME : "a peach first!" { c} : "then I want a marshmallow" ME : "fine!" These are the deals I sometimes make. By far this was actually one of the easier ones ... we both got what we wanted. I just cook, clean, and buy food. 3 year olds definitely run the show!