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Dear Dad,


It's been 2 years since your passing, but I still think of you quite often.

I remember  ...
  • You were quiet
  • You liked to people watch
  • You always called me your thinker and asked what was on my mind
  • You took me and my siblings to the beach when mom couldn't
  • You bought me sneakers one time that mom NEVER would have allowed
  • You let me eat cherry ices at the beach ... even though mom would probably curse you for the stains
  • You never yelled at me ... that wasn't your style
  • You took the blame for always getting lost when it was really mom who wandered (I know this now)
  • You were so nervous walking me down the aisle
  • You trusted my decisions
  • You called me super ... you thought I was smart
  • You suffered a lot, but put on a brave face
  • You liked a lot of the same things that I do ... photography, beaches, creative stuff
  • You passed on a lot of your traits to me

and for all that ...

I THANK YOU DAD
and
I still miss you!
2/26/38-5/21/07



Comments

Tracy said…
wow, this is so very touching, your dad sounds like he was an amazing man.
southernjoy said…
(((((hugs)))))
Shelly said…
okay, tears here.

never yelling? I can't even imagine. what a wonderful thing!
Unknown said…
Such a beautiful tribute.

Hugs to you as you miss and remember your dad at this anniversary time.

W
Kim H. said…
Wow! Elaine, it sure sounds like your Dad was an awesome fellow. Beautiful tribute.

Hugs!
Sarah said…
What a beautiful tribute to your dad! It sounds like he was a wonderful man.
wenderful said…
Aren't dads the best? I miss my dad too. Your sounds like an amazing one.

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